Health Demystified Has Moved!
Check out the new site at healthdemystified.com (A WordPress Site).
See you there,
Eric
Eric Wang, Pharm.D. Candidate 2012
A Premium Weight Loss Strategy Package For Completely Free? Is This For Real? Yes. Yes it is.
I’ve been pondering on the issue of weight loss recently and how it’s such a struggle for so many men and women worldwide. I want to put together a complete weight-loss strategy to help those who have been struggling for years to finally lose the weight that is putting them at risk for diseases such as heart disease, diabetes, certain types of cancer, even premature death.
I know that cost is usually a limiting factor for those trying to lose weight and keep it off. So, I want to provide this completely for FREE. And, since I’ll been seeking out the expertise and guidance of some of the world’s foremost experts in the field of nutrition, obesity, and food psychology, I want to make sure there is enough demand for this product.
Many of these top experts charge hundreds – even thousands – of dollars per consultation, and I want to get this to you completely FREE. No credit card required. Just your email address, so I can send it to you after it’s finished.
So obviously, I’ll have to do a lot of convincing and a heck of a lot of work to put this massive program together. To make sure all this effort is not for nothing, I want to make sure enough people would be interested.
So, if you are interested in getting a FREE copy of this product, make sure to leave a comment below letting me know that you are interested. In your comment MAKE SURE to tell me your BIGGEST frustration when it comes to losing weight or keeping it off.
If we get 200 or more comments on this post by 5/31, we will proceed with making this product. If not, I guess we’ll just have to postpone this for a later time.
IN OTHER NEWS:
In the next few weeks, I’m excited and proud to welcome the following experts (and more) to share their expertise on self-control and/or weight loss on healthdemystified.com in the next several weeks:
Nir Eyal, www.nirandfar.com

Nir Eyal founded and sold two tech companies since 2003 and today is an advisor, consultant, and investor in several Bay Area companies and incubators. Nir’s last company, AdNectar, received venture funding from Kleiner Perkins and was sold in 2011. He is a contributing writer for for TechCrunch and Forbes. Nir blogs about the intersection of psychology, technology, and business at NirAndFar.com.
Denny Krahe, www.dkfitsolutions.com (winner of Cranky Fitness’s Top Weight Loss Blogs of 2012)

Having established himself as a major brand in the health and fitness industry, Denny Krahe has worked with clients at a variety of fitness levels, ranging from moms trying to burn off some leftover some “baby fat” to professional athletes (Detroit Tigers) trying to get that competitive advantage. Denny is a nationally certified Athletic Trainer, and is licensed by the State of Florida. He is also a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist and a member of both the Antional Athletic Traner’s Association and the National Strength and Conditioning Association. When he isn’t working, Denny enjo reading and working around the house. He also enjoys running, and has completed two full marathons and one half marathon. He also enjoys spending time with his wife and his American Bulldog. Denny and his wife currently live in Lakeland, FL.
Dr. Anh Nguyen, www.fitfoodiepharmacist.com

Dr. Anh Nguyen is a Board Certified Ambulatory Care Pharmacist and Certified Health Coach. She describes herself as an avid foodie who believes in food’s ability to prevent and heal illness. Tired of only treating illness and wanting to find a way to motivate patients for true behavior change and to create lasting lifestyle transformations, Dr. Anh Nguyen founded fitfoodiepharmacist.com, and since 2009, through her blog and iTunes podcast, she has helped thousands of women lose weight and keep fit.
Sheila Viers, www.sheilaviers.com

Sheila Viers is an Emotional Eating Expert, Holistic Life Coach and Co-founder of Live Well 360. After years of hating her body, torturing herself with diets, and feeling like food had total control over her, she discovered a new approach to weight loss that completely changed her life.
She has helped countless women change their relationship with food and with their bodies and as a result, they finally feel gorgeous, empowered, and alive.
Best known for helping women get the body of their dreams while loving the body they have now, Sheila has been featured in publications including Yahoo! Shine, Glo MSN, FITNESS Magazine, LiveStrong, FitSugar, Under30CEO, and FigureAthlete.
Jamie Dougherty, www.jamieliving.com

Jamie Dougherty is a certified Health & Lifestyle Coach who works one-on-one with busy, overwhelmed, entrepreneurial, career-driven women who are ready to let go of feeling hungry, stuck, and spread too thin. She empowers women to stop the negative food and thought patterns and cultivate their most unique, vibrant and feel (and look) fabulous life.
Jamie received her Holistic Health Coach certification from the Institute for Integrative Nutrition and Columbia University and is accredited by the American Association of Drugless Practitioners. With her private and corporate practice, I offer support to individuals and companies such as Clif Bar.
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Again, if you are interested in getting a FREE copy of this product, make sure to leave a comment below letting me know that you are interested. In your comment MAKE SURE to tell me your BIGGEST frustration when it comes to losing weight or keeping it off.
If we get 200 or more comments on this post by 5/31, we will proceed with making this FREE product.
Best of health to you and your loved ones,
Eric
Eric Wang, Pharm.D. Candidate 2012
P.S. The first 75 people to leave a comment will receive bonus content (recipes, bonus videos, etc.)
RISING STARS IN THE HEALTH AND FITNESS BLOGOSPHERE: 9 health and fitness bloggers who will entertain, inform, and inspire the world in 2012
First of all, I want to admit I STOLE this off Srini Rao’s awesome personal development site, theskooloflife.com. So, check that out. You won’t be disappointed.
For those of you who don’t know who Srini is: He is one of my top blogging heroes. He has a podcast on iTunes called BlogCast FM, in which he regularly interviews experts in blogging, marketing, and social media. Check out BlogCast FM here: http://blogcastfm.com/
I want to take the time to showcase some stellar examples of up-and-coming talent in the health and fitness blogosphere. Here are my favorite health and fitness blogs I’ve come across recently. Enjoy!
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Mystery Author, cookingupthecure.wordpress.com
Why it’s awesome:
1. According to the blogger, this blog is dedicated to providing information on nutrition, foods and lifestyles that fight cancer. So, I must provide this disclaimer up-front. I do not advocate self-treatment of cancer in any way (this is for people who have openly threatened to sue me). That being said, if you’re looking for recipes for some seriously-tasty gluten-free, high-fiber, flavorful dishes that can help you lose weight while actually enjoying the new foods you eat – you don’t want to miss this site.
2. The author provides resources and references (wow!). Unfortunately, most health/fitness blogs just say random sh*t without backing it up (i.e. have no credibility). In contrast, if you disagree with the things said on this blog, you can look it up for yourself to double-check. Very cool.
3. There’s an entire section of the blog devoted to natural stress reduction techniques. Who can honestly say they are completely stress-free? Ok. Besides you –LIAR! Anyway, don’t get a $1000/hr stress coach without checking out this blog first: http://cookingupthecure.wordpress.com/.
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Cassy, journeytoawesomehood.wordpress.com
Why it’s awesome:
1. There are few blogs as endearing and inspirational as this blog. It chronicles one woman’s (Cassy’s) journey “from feeling overweight to feeling awesome.” Unfortunately most of these types of weight-loss blogs are super-self-obsessed (example: ooh, I lost 4 pounds! Go me! I’m so awesome!). Cassy somehow manages to avoid that self-obsession and really share the love and share the inspiration.
2. What’s great is that she shares some of the biggest mistakes people make and provides some great alternatives: (See: http://journeytoawesomehood.wordpress.com/2012/04/24/goodbye-to-bad-foods-hello-to-better-foods/). By sharing her experiences (what’s worked and what hasn’t), we can all benefit. Even though this blog isn’t written by a self-proclaimed “health expert” or “zen master of weight loss,” we all have things we can learn from Cassy’s blog.
3. She occasionally uses the phrase “zonked out,” I’m sorry – I just think that phrase is hilarious. Anyway, here’s the link to her blog: http://journeytoawesomehood.wordpress.com/
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Cynthia, gangybuffet.com

Why it’s awesome:
1. Ok, I’ll admit: The first time I heard of this site, it brought up disturbing images of innocent people getting seriously beat up and eaten by cannibalistic gangs of hoodlums in an abandoned alleyway in Detroit. But, boy am I glad I didn’t judge this blog by its URL. The blog, unlike what I had imagined, is actually about “reaching an empowered state through delicious healthy food and empowered lifestyle.”
2. Cynthia, the blogger behind this site, comes from France. Perhaps, that’s why the recipes are so delicious. Oh, and are you interested in juicing? She apparently has this over-the-top love affair with her juicer. It’s kind of disturbing actually…ANYWAY, if you’re into that stuff, make sure to visit her blog
3. Not to be outdone, Cynthia is also an avid photographer. If you are a sucker for beautiful photos (like me), Cynthia also recently started a photography blog here: http://cynthiahulephotography.wordpress.com/
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Rox, roxloveslearning.wordpress.com

Why it’s awesome:
1. For a 21 year old, Roxanne (“Rox”) has a pretty impressive amount of wisdom. At such a young age, she has learned that we should “never stop learning, because life never stops teaching.” What a beautiful revelation! This is in stark contrast to some of my classmates who are like “oh my GOD, I’m going to shoot myself if I have to stay in school any longer. I just can’t WAIT to get DONE with school, and make money and not have to worry having to learn anymore…ugh…”
2. Having myself gotten in trouble at my pharm school for things I’ve said regarding the importance of non-pharmacological (non-drug) healing methods like exercise, and proper diet/nutrition and, having my graduation postponed as a result, I know how frustrating it is to have one’s graduation delayed. Rox dealt with this frustrating situation in such a mature and positive way: “I may not be able to enroll this coming semester and finish my degree but I know everything happens for a reason.” Wow! I felt bad for feeling bad for myself after reading that. What a wonderful way to look at that situation!
3. Rox has this “let’s go!” attitude to life. And she imbues this adventurous attitude and warmth into each post. If you believe that nature and exploring beyond your comfort zone can teach you amazing things and bring beauty to your life, definitely check out Rox’s blog at: http://roxloveslearning.wordpress.com/
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Rachel, doilooksick.wordpress.com
Why it’s awesome:
1. So many of us are suffering from invisible illnesses (I myself struggle with depression and chronic pain). Yet rarely do people talk about these diseases. If you are struggling with an invisible illness, you are NOT alone. According to this Johns Hopkins University (source: http://invisibleillnessweek.com/2009/05/06/statistics-chronic-illness/), nearly 1 in every 2 Americans suffer from an invisible, chronic condition. Rachel’s blog “Do I look sick?” takes a very humane approach to raising awareness about these invisible conditions.
2. What are invisible chronic conditions you ask? Arthritis, asthma, brain injury, chronic fatigue syndrome, chronic pain, Cushing’s syndrome, cystic fibrosis, diabetes, endometriosis, heart disease, lupus, Lyme disease, Meniere’s disease, migraine, multiple sclerosis in the early stages, neurological and seizure disorders, osteoporosis, organ transplant, and Parkinson’s disease. These are just SOME examples. There are many more. On this blog, Rachel facilitates the sharing of stories – which I believe is a wonderful way of sharing inspiration and hope.
3. I love how Rachel is so transparent about her own disease: “My invisible illness is endometriosis. Endo is hard to talk about without mentioning unmentionables. Men who are fait of heart might want to skip to the next paragraph. When I explain end, I have to use words like “uterus” and “ovaries” and that tends to freak people out. And hey, I can admit it, endo is gross. I’m certainly not a fan. But moving on, I have a little story to share. Have you tried talking about a personal disease before about your OVARIES to the rest of the world? Yeah, it’s HARD, and it takes an extraordinary amount of courage. If you suffer from an invisible illness, and you want to find support, encouragement, and hope, don’t miss: http://doilooksick.wordpress.com/
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Kendra, http://lifemindvitamin.com/
Why it’s awesome:
1. From the moment you step into this blog, you instantly feel refreshed and at least 43% healthier. But, it’s clean, minimalist design is just the beginning.
2. So many blogs out there tell you to “make a lifestyle change instead of going on a diet.” But, what the F does that mean, anyway? Whether you are trying to go gluten-free, Paleo, vegetarian/vegan, or “anti-inflammatory,” this blog has great information on the specifics of how to go from diet to lifestyle change.
3. This is one of the best, most honest posts about “demystifying health” I’ve come across recently: http://lifemindvitamin.com/2012/03/12/taking-charge-of-your-health. As Kendra points out, there’s many factors that we can’t control in regards to our health, but there’s many things we CAN control. That’s what Health Demystified is all about. Here’s the link: http://lifemindvitamin.com/
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Bryanne, berealyoga.wordpress.com

Why it’s awesome:
1. Where do I begin? I think Bryanne, the blogger, describes it best on her about page: “This blog is for those who are interested in re-thinking their relationship towards food and their bodies. If you’ve ever struggled with an eating disorder, self-destructive thinking around food, body-image issues, self-love or feeling your feelings, this blog is for you! Been there!”
2. Bryanne is also a yoga instructor, and as such emphasizes mind-body awareness, which I personally believe to be the “secret” or at the core of what it means to be “healthy.”
3. I really like the way Bryanne organizes her posts: she starts off with a couple paragraphs of insights and wisdom, and ends with a recipe. With recipes like “Angela Lidden’s Sticky Toffee Pudding” and “Unreasonably large buttery cookies,” you might be going like OH MY GOD. I can’t eat THAT. And, that’s ok – you don’t have to eat everything you see (I’m so insightful, aren’t I?). However, if you are really watching trying to watch your calories, there’s some fantastic recipes for you like “Bonzai Spelt Pilaf” and “Roasted Garlic Babganoush” that are good to your taste buds AND to your diet, err…lifestyle change. Check it out: http://berealyoga.wordpress.com/
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Maureena, http://maureenabivinsphd.com/
Why it’s awesome:
1. Ok, in this segment, I tend to highlight blogs that are relatively new (~2-5 months old), and this blog has been around for a while. But, I really like this blog, and I’m going to include it anyway! How do you like THAT?! Ok, well – too bad. I’m including it anyway. Maureena Bivins, Ph.D., LAc, the holistic practitioner behind this excellent blog has been practicing and refining her techniques and her unique “holistic perspectives on health, beauty, and wellness for a while now. And, her expertise shines through each of the posts.
2. Coming from a Western Medicine background, but also being interested in Eastern modes of healing as well – in big part due to my uncle who has healed many “previously unhealable” (is that a word?) people with Traditional Chinese Medicine – this blog offers a unique perspective.
3. What’s really cool too is that, while she definitely has a passion for healing and medicine, Maureena also delves into other passions like social media, entrepreneurship, and even ergonomics! Good to know that there are health bloggers that are not one-dimensional! Great stuff: http://maureenabivinsphd.com/
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Antioxidant Girl, antioxidantgirl.com

Ok, jumping all the way to the opposite end of the “experience” spectrum, we’re going to move on to this blog, which is less than a month old! Say WHAT. A self-described “nutrition nerd” and aspiring registered dietician (still in college), Antioxidant Girl is truly passionate about healthy eating, and it shows even in the face of her relative inexperience with regard to health/nutrition blogging (again, this blog is less than a month old; cut this superhero some slack).
Antioxidant Girl likes sweet stuff. Say WHAAAT. I thought she was into healthy eating. She is! She says: “I will be posting on healthy substitutes for the foods we love the most! Who says sweets can’t be healthy?” I don’t know about you, but that sounds good to me!
In just one month, Antioxidant Girl has managed to already throw in some recipes with a big dash of South Californian personality in the mix. I’m looking to forward to seeing what our young superhero has to say: http://antioxidantgirl.com/
Have fun exploring and getting inspired,
Eric
Eric Wang, Pharm.D. Candidate 2012
Thanksgiving Thursdays (Week #4)
I’ve been thinking over my life these past couple months.
Since I started healthdemystified.com about 4 months ago (around last Christmas), a lot has happened.
1154 followers on Wordpress. 579 on Tumblr. Over 1400 fans on the Health Demystified Facebook page.
I’ve interviewed some seriously influential people in the field of health and wellness (ex. Bill Gottlieb of Prevention Magazine/Rodale Books, Jamie Dougherty of JamieLiving.com, Sheila Viers of Live Well 360, Dr. Anh Thu Nguyen of Fit Foodie Pharmacist) and, most importantly, I’ve had the opportunity to talk to and learn from many of you (valued followers) by means of your comments.
None of this would have been possible without the strong and unrelenting support of those in the Health Demystified community.
I just want to stop everything I’m doing right now, and really thank you for commenting on my blog. I discover plenty of awesome blogs just through reading the thoughtful and astute or inspirational stories/vignettes/thoughts people have shared (by means of comments) on my blog.
I take the time to read through every comment posted.
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While I value everyone who has followed my blog and kick-started their journey towards health, fitness, and happiness, I want to specifically thank these following individuals. These individuals are not only leaders on their admirable blogs; they are also leaders in the Health Demystified community, setting an example for us and inspiring us all.
These are my MVPs (Most Valued Peeps) I want to recognize this week. Show em some love:
http://spinningonthewebb.wordpress.com/
Sandra, http://delemares.wordpress.com/
http://milemeter.wordpress.com/
Amanda J., http://amandajanef.wordpress.com/
Julia S., http://lefthandedinarighthandworld.wordpress.com/
Barb D, http://texthistory.wordpress.com/
Abby R., http://abbyrae33.me/who-am-i/
Justin M., theroaminglama.wordpress.com
Lisa O., lifeyum.com *
Cassy, adaboffrosting.wordpress.com
Sherryl C, sherrylcook.wordpress.com *
Janet P, janetpoole.wordpress.com
Neha, nehamendirattakhullar.wordpress.com
CiCi B., http://bellerogue.wordpress.com
Adeshola E., http://sholashade.wordpress.com/
* also nominated as a Health Demystified Rising Star
P.S. I encourage all of you reading this right now to reach out and thank those awesome individuals (MVPs, if you will) who support your own blogs.
-Eric
Eric Wang, Pharm.D. Candidate 2012
How to Use Butt Spanking to Master Self-Control and Lose Weight Now
[Health Demystified’s Behind-the-scenes Expert Interview with the Founders of Beeminder.com]
What can motivate hardcore fanatics of Five Guy’s burgers and Pat’s Steaks to suddenly and powerfully choose to relinquish those items for home-prepared salads – and lose 50 pounds or more in the process?
This, my friend, is a question that man has wrestled with since the beginning of time.
Ok, maybe not the beginning of time. But definitely since Five Guys was founded.
Is it the threat of disease? Or dying from a heart attack or diabetes? Is it the desire to bed that beautiful chick in HR?
In one word – maybe.
But, what if none of those threats and rewards matter to you? Or, more specifically, what if none of those threats and rewards matter to you when presented with a warm, gooey Raspberry-filled Krispy Kreme donut 2 feet in front of your FACE?
The answer?
Spanky Spanky.
Though often frowned upon in today’s society, some parents still threaten kids with the threat of butt spanking. My mom was one of those parents.
But, really, it wasn’t so much the act of butt spanking that got me to do good things or not do bad things. It was the immediate threat of punishment.
Immediate threats of punishment (i.e. “spanky spanky”) are why, the night before taxes are due, you feel this superhuman urge to stop procrastinating, which PROPELS you to do your taxes AT ONCE.
But, as it turns out, there’s something even more devious and powerful than an immediate threat of punishment. In fact, this may be one of the most POWERFUL motivating forces of man. Dr. Daniel Kahneman first described this force in the 1970s – but it has motivated humans since the beginning of time. (Yes – not just the beginning of Five Guys). If you tap into this paranormal force, you WILL lose weight. You WILL achieve your goals.
This force is encapsulated in one deceptively powerful tool I discovered online about a month ago. The tool is Beeminder.
I got the pleasure to talk behind-the-scenes with the founders and geniuses behind Beeminder.com, Dr. Daniel Reeves and Bethany Soule.

Dr. Daniel Reeves, CEO and Co-Founder, Beeminder.com

Bethany Soule, CTO and Co-Founder, Beeminder.com
I’ve been trying months to reach them, but the interview was worth my efforts.
Find out what this mysterious force is in this VIP look into the masterminds behind Beeminder.com
Are You Being Manipulated Subconsciously?
Hey!
Quick question: Would you buy the following products?
“Weight Loss in only 5 years!”
“How to get girls in bed with you in 3 decades or less!”
“Improve confidence over the course of a lifetime!”
The answer is no. You wouldn’t.
Having worked in marketing for a while now, and from seeing what works and what doesn’t (as well as reading books by advertising greats such as Claude Hopkins, David Ogilvy, and John Caples), it’s clear that some things sell and some things, well, don’t.
In this post, I’ll give you a brief background on myself and how I got involved with marketing, and then I’ll go on to explain how marketers play with your emotions, manipulate you to do stuff and buy things and are just generally evil people.
(Just kidding about that last part.)
I worked at a pharmaceutical advertising firm in NYC – but that’s not what the CEOs there called it. They called it “health education company.” Because we “educated” consumers on why they should take pills up the wazoo. And, we “educated” doctors on why they need to prescribe more drugs sold by the pharma companies we worked for.
Oh sure, I had a great time there. The people there were a genuinely fun crew. There were a lot of creative minds there. And, free snacks and coffee and tea of all kinds. (Yes - I said free). And, a couple feet from where I sat, there was a huge, gigantic window with an amazing view of Downtown Manhattan.
I felt important. I was a medical writer. I was on top of the world.
I was floating above the clouds. And, my head was the size of a hot air balloon.
(No. Not literally…)
From then on, I took some freelancing jobs and worked in copywriting for a little bit. And, I loved it. I was making some serious ka-ching.
But, something felt wrong.
I was manipulating people to buy things I knew weren’t good for them. And, that didn’t settle well with me. And, so I quit. But, from that experience of working as a marketer, I gained a few insights I want to share with you…
Marketers have been figuring out how to manipulate people to buy things since the beginning of time. They even have books out titled “Words that Sell.” Marketers make promises that speak to the emotions, vulnerabilities and self-interest of consumers like you and me.
The most effective marketers start by appealing to your self-interest: “achieve long-term weight loss” and “instantly expend more calories and burn more fat faster than ever with this scientifically proven formula.” I’ve even heard “lose more weight, make more friends, and become the center of attention.” That’s pretty impressive, considering all you need to do is take a pill a day.
After that, marketers sprinkle in words and phrases like “clinically proven formula,” “metabolism boosting,” “all-natural ingredients” “engineered,” “patented,” “advanced weight loss formula,” “key scientific ingredients” and “utilizing the latest breakthrough in weight loss science.”
How many times have you heard the terms “Powerful, Safe, and Effective” thrown into an advertisement? Can’t they come up with something more creative? The answer is yes they can - but, they don’t, because “Powerful, Safe, and Effective” is what brings in the big bucks.
Next, they toss around some mystical pseudo-scientific speak such as “hyperactive themogenic state” and “cutting-edge neuropeptides,” ” satiety center,” or “hormonal balance,” and/or “increasing catabolism of adipose tissue” just to mystify and wow you. Oooh, this MUST be good - it’s “thermogenic.” I have no idea what the hell that even means, but it’s scientific, so it MUST be good.
Then, of course they throw in the “90 Day Money Back Guarantee” for good measure.
But, of course, there’s always a disclaimer somewhere. Sometimes you need a scanning electron microscope just to make out the words, but I assure you - somewhere hidden in the packaging or labeling - you’ll find in tiny-ass font: Results not typical.
Say WHAT?! You’re saying I paid 139 bucks for a product that only works for 1 person in every 8,592,291,304 people?
Like Seth Godin says, All marketers are liars.
I mean, they have to be. Can you imagine a “truthful ad”?
Like, an advertisement with a disclaimer in huge font: You may lose small amounts of weight with this product. But, you can just as easily gain it all back, and then some. In fact, you may hate your life as you will need to work out that the gym 5 hours a day, 7 days a week, in order for this product to work. Oh, sure, you can eat anything you want, and as much as you want - as long as it’s celery sticks.
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No, they are going to keep selling us products with ridiculous claims, and the fools out there will continue to consume more and more bullshit.
But not you, my friend. Not you, because you read this post and you are well on your way to not being manipulated by marketers.
Yours Truthfully,
Eric
Eric Wang, Pharm.D. Candidate 2012
Expert Tips on How to Stop Emotional Eating and Achieve the Body of Your Dreams
On this awesome episode of Health Demystifed Expert Interview Series, we are here with emotional eating expert Sheila Viers (www.sheilaviers.com).
She’s the Co-Founder of Live Well 360. Her work been featured in several health and fitness publications including Yahoo! Shine, Glo MSN, FITNESS magazine, LiveStrong, the list goes on and on….
She’s helped thousands of women stop bouncing from one diet to another, to end the self-sabotage, and in the process to gain energy, clarity, and focus in their lives
HIGHLIGHTS OF OUR INTERVIEW:
-Sheila shares her own story about how she overcame her issues with weight, poor self-esteem, and emotional eating. In her own words, she “ironically gained 20 pounds after trying to lose weight.” Jumping from one diet to the next, bingeing, self-sabotaging behaviors — she’s been there and done that. And, more importantly, she’s overcome these behaviors and helped thousands of other women (and men) do the same.
-Learn why focusing on diet and exercise is NOT an effective way to maintain lean body weight.
-Learn how to maintain your weight without constantly worrying about what you’re eating
-Learn how Sheila “maintains her leanest body weight to date, without even trying”
As always, feel free to share this video if you find it useful. Share the love, peoples!
-Eric
Eric Wang, Pharm.D. Candidate 2012
Thanksgiving Thursdays (Week #3)
I often talk about the importance of being grateful. By being grateful for what we have, we not only appreciate our lives more, put our interactions with others and the world becomes more rich as well.
Often, as adults, our whole lives are an endless pursuit of more things. More money. More status. More cars. More vacation homes. But, how sad it is that we don’t appreciate these things once we get them.
One of my MVPs (Taras D.) emailed me this great insight from the Dalai Lama who explains this phenomenon eloquently:
“Man. He sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies having never really lived”
Let us not be like everyone else. Let us truly live and leave a legacy of living and loving that we are proud to share!
On this special Thanksgiving Thursday, I want to thank the people below for their outstanding show of support for my blog by reblogging, tweeting, and sharing my posts and rants, commenting with engaging thought-provoking comments, and engaging others in the Health Demystified community as well.
Not only do they support me and my blog by spreading the word about the Health Demystified movement, they also have amazing stories and blogs of their own. These individuals have been a wealth of inspiration and knowledge. They are collectively using their talents and their voices to cut through all the noise and confusion out there – to make a real difference in the world.
These individuals are my MVPs (Most Valued Peeps). And, by means of this post, I am inducting them into my ultra-exclusive, super-cool, totally-banging Health Demystified MVP club.
Make sure to check out their blogs, and give em some LOVE:
Josh, joshisaloser.com
Bobby F., movingforwellness.wordpress.com
Alexandra, lexokat.wordpress.com
Brandon, proverbsandbiz.wordpress.com
“CV,” TheCubicleViews.com
Lisa, barefootbarn.com
Kendra M., teachfortots.wordpress.com
Jim, fitrecovery.wordpress.com
Martin G., martingysler.wordpress.com
Curtis M., crashleadership.com
A.J., restlessbusinessman.wordpress.com
Paul, paulotus.wordpress.com
Carol D., caroldekkers.wordpress.com
Sally, afterkids.wordpress.com
“Mr. T,” addicted2adwords.wordpress.com
Jay, bluejayblog.wordpress.com
Mandi S., mmstores.wordpress.com
Maria D., mariadorfner.wordpress.com
Cara O., thislittlelight516.wordpress.com
Kim, kimthedietitian.wordpress.com
BRAIN CONSTIPATION: How often does your brain go to the bathroom?
If you’re like most people, your brain is not going to the bathroom enough. You need to move the bowels of your brain more often. It’s getting cluttered and disgusting in there.

We consume so much on a daily basis. Everything, from TV, to magazines, to Youtube, is feeding us this and that. The increasing social media chatter isn’t making things better either. With all this new technology, we get fed more and more - through our RSS feeds, our emails, our news feeds, Facebook pages, Twitter feeds. And, everyone seems to have their own agenda. Everyone is selling their own products, their own ideas, others’ ideas. Great ideas, not so good ideas. (This is seriously starting to sound like a Dr. Seuss book).
And, we’ve consumed it. Ruminated over some of it. Some of it is partially digested. Other bits cause brain upset or indigestion. And, in the end, our brains are overloaded. Bloated. And there’s no space left for clear thinking.
Look inside your brain for a moment. If you are like most people, there’s so many different bits and pieces floating around in there - obligations, worries, frustrations, stray emotions, feelings not dealt with since childhood, shoulds, woulds, cans, cants. No wonder why we’re so constipated.
It’s time to relax and TAKE A DUMP.
You don’t need to buy special brain laxatives costing $50 a pill. You just need a pen, and some paper. Get writing!
Yes, you can take a brain dump on other things besides paper. I personally use Google Docs. You can use whatever works for you.
When you take a dump, you feel lighter. It’s not different with brain dumping. Once you dump it all out on a piece of paper, you may even feel on top of the clouds or “light as a feather,” especially if you just took a big dump.
Sometimes, we may even feel it is necessary to take a dump on someone else. Just remember the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do onto you. So, let me ask you: do you like when others shit on you?
That’s not to say you shouldn’t share with others what’s on your mind. Not at all. Just be considerate. If you are brain dumping on people on an everyday, that’s not cool.
When you write things down, you can start thinking logically about things. You can start making plans, and you free up the space in your brain. Our brains can only focus on one thing at a time. We aren’t wired to multi-task.
Unload the crap in your brain. You don’t need to be an excellent writer. You can even draw out or illustrate your frustrations if that helps you.
Excuse me while I go take a dump.
-Eric
Eric Wang, Pharm.D. Candidate
My Interview with Bill Gottlieb of Prevention Magazine. Raw. Uncut. Uncensored.
I had the tremendous opportunity to sit down and talk with Bill Gottlieb earlier last week. For those of you who don’t know who Bill Gottlieb is, he’s former editor-in-chief of Prevention Magazine Books and Rodale Books. He is the author of the international bestselling sensation, Alternative Cures and 9 other tremendously bestselling titles about health and wellness.
Bill Gottlieb has appeared on Good Morning America, CNN, and countless other media outlets. He was also the spokesperson for a commercial for The Doctors Book of Home Remedies—which was broadcast more than 50,000 times and sold 2,000,000 copies.
Over his illustrious career, Bill has helped countless individuals to identify and reach their goals for better health, in diet, exercise, career, relationships and spirituality. And, I’m sure that he can help you, or anyone else for that matter, on the right direction for health and success.

For more information about Bill and, to get an exclusive 50-minute FREE zero-obligation health consultation with Bill to see if health coaching may be right for you, go to Bill’s website http://billgottliebhealth.com/, and tell him that Eric Wang from Health Demystified sent you.
This interview is presented below completely unedited, uncensored and raw. You may not like what is said. You may not agree. And, it’s not a substitute for going to see your doctor.
In this interview, we talk about accepting ourselves just the way we are, and so I present this unedited, and uncut. This is the real deal.
This is one of the most profound conversations I’ve had in a very long time. I’m still trying to process and digest all of it. Hope this helps and enlightens you as much as it has for me.
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EW: Hi, Bill! It’s such a huge honor and privilege to have the chance to sit and talk to you today. Thank you for coming out and taking the time to do this interview with us.
Over your 30-year career, you’ve been a successful editor and author of some extremely prestigious health publications such as Prevention Magazine and the bestselling Alternative Cures, and you’ve helped to transform the health and lives of millions of people in your career as both a thought-leader in the health and wellness field and a health coach to thousands of clients. Can you tell us a little about yourself and your story of how you got to where you are today?
BG: Sure, Eric. I grew up in Allentown, PA, which is the town next to Emmaus, PA, where Rodale Press is situated. Rodale is the publisher of Prevention Magazine, and Men’s Health, and Women’s Health. So, I was really lucky to grow up there, and was always interested in writing and journalism. Senior year in high school, I interned at Rodale. And I came back to Rodale a couple years later, and the executive editor at Prevention magazine just happened to need a freelancer. And, that’s basically how my career started.
It was a combination of my interest and a lot of serendipity and luck. I ended up having a 20 year career there – from 1976 to 1995 – and that happened to be a period when the US grew up around natural health and healing, so I happened to be at Rodale at a wonderful time. So I was really lucky to be at the right place at the right time.
EW: So how did you get into health coaching and writing health books?
BG: About thirteen of the years I was at Rodale, I was in the book division. I was Assistant Managing Director at Prevention Magazine and Executive Editor of Prevention Magazine Health Books. [At Prevention Magazine Books], I started with a small staff of 6 people. In the next couple years, we just had a lot of tremendous successes, and that staff expanded and, at a certain point, I ended up as Editor-in-Chief of Rodale Books in 1986. And, then I spent 9 more years dealing with books after that. So I had a lot to do with all of that: conceiving books, and supervising writers. Editing books as well.
I left Rodale in 1995 on account of a really profound conversation I had with my spiritual practitioner/guide, and I decided to quit and was a volunteer for a year, and ended up writing books. My first book was with Rodale, and it ended up being a big success, and creating a lot of momentum to continue writing books.
EW: Can you tell me more about your spiritual guide and your conversation with him that influenced you to leave Rodale and carve out a new path of your own?
BG: I’m a student and devotee of a spiritual master named Adi Da Samraj. He’s a guru in the classic guru-devotee relationship. I start reading him in 1976, and I was captivated by his teachings and radiant persona, and I became a formal student of his in 1990 and a student of him in the next 2 decades.
The guru is seen as a radiant personality who is free of identification with the limits of the body-mind – thinking, feeling, physical sensation – all the limits and is awake as all-pervading and transcendental light and consciousness. And the relationship is motivated to awaken the individual in relationship to the same awareness beyond the body-mind and all-prevading and transcendental awareness.
EW: Can you tell us more about that? And what advice could you give those who are trying to find a direction for their career or their life in the face of uncertainty?
BG: I really felt that [uncertainty] of purpose when I was at Rodale. After 20 years in the corporate world, I felt that if my intention was really to serve others, and if I wanted to do the best for the reader and put my whole heart and soul into that, things would take care of themselves. I don’t think this is always the case, but I believe that people who are generally more self-interested don’t have that much free attention for excellence. I really think that that’s true. At the same time, I think a lot of people that are self-interested go on to great success, but I do believe that something about the impulse and calling from my spiritual life had something to do with my success.
EW: Wouldn’t you consider everyone to be self-interested – to some extent?
BG: To a certain extent, yeah. But I think part of the challenge of being human is to see where that takes you and see if you have an impulse to go beyond that self-centered impulse. I think as human beings, what is most intrinsic to us is a twin desire – which is a desire to love and a desire to be loved. Often time, the desire to love is not as activated as the desire to be loved. And, often times, [the desire to love] serves just as well [as the desire to be loved]. I think having the impulse to serve, if you really kind of go for that, you really find that it activates a tremendous amount of joy and energy and potential success that ends up [ironically] serving self-interest in the long run.
EW: I can see what you’re saying with that. I guess I wanted to share a little bit about myself. I was always really self-interested to a big extent, and I still am. But, I guess a lot of what I believed changed about a year ago.
During that time, I fell into a deep depression, and I guess it was a combination of stress from school and family issues, and being overloaded with work from pharmacy school as well as work. I was working night shifts at Thomas Jefferson University Hospital as a pharmacy intern. And, I was depressed – I was suicidal. I posted this on my blog. I finally came clean with it. I was too ashamed to tell about this experience [before]. I went on the Ben Franklin bridge, and I was thinking about taking my life. And, I happened to call a suicide hotline maybe 15 minutes earlier, and just as I was about to…about to take my life, the woman who I had talked to had actually called me back and after that incident, I was in the hospital for two weeks. And, there I spent time with other people who were suicidal or schizophrenic, and people who just suffered awful things like having parents who left them in a dumpster so they could go and get high. Stuff like that. And that experience – one of the lowest experiences in my life – totally changed my perspective on life.
It made me see that everyone had problems. Everyone is suffering from something. Everyone suffers from something. And, when I realized that, I became so grateful for the things that I had in my life. And, because of that experience, I realized I didn’t really want to be just a pharmacist. I wanted to be a life coach – and help people realize that life is so much more than just living for yourself.
BG: Well, that’s a profound and beautiful process that you went through.
EW: Yeah. It felt like suffering when I went through it but I see now that everything has a purpose.
BG: Yeah, you know, I think I was sharing with someone who contacted me who had a profound depression, and now he’s helping people get past that depression. I think oftentimes…well, I lost my mother when I was 18 and I went into kind of an interesting state as a result of that. And, I think these things happen for a reason. And, it’s really only those kinds of super-intense crisis where you actually reach the bottom and there’s nowhere else to go. That, somehow, in that context, mysteriously, something is freeing you to actually perceive what your destiny is, what your true desires might be and therefore to have a regeneration similar to that kind of classic experience like the “dark night of the soul” metaphor in Christianity.
Here you are, in a time when you’re looking at the rest of your life and trying to figure out what the purpose of your life is. And, I think it’s a profound and beautiful experience that you went through. I use the word beautiful because I think it’s wonderful that you came out on the other side of that, and your life was literally saved and now you see…
EW: I do really feel it was a voice from God. Still, to this day, I’m struck by how powerful that experience has been. It was one of those defining moments of one’s, of my life.
BG: So you were in a Pharm.D. program?
EW: I’m still in a Pharm.D. program actually. I’m scheduled to graduate this year. However, after I get my Pharm.D., I might work part-time as a pharmacist, but what I really want is to write some books and hopefully inspire people to get real about their health. To get their butt off the couch and do the things they need to do to get healthy and live their lives to the fullest.
What I’m doing now is interviewing some experts like you in the field of health and wellness.
BG: Yeah. For this new book I’m working on diabetes supplements and superfoods for diabetes, I just interviewed a pharmacist who’s become disillusioned with the whole reductionist “this medicine for that problem” approach, so, he talks to me very interestingly as a pharmacist about the limitations to the drugs that he’s dispensing and what others could do. I think it gives you a wonderful tool, almost paradoxically, like the Graedon’s – Joe and Terry Graedon – who have gone on to tell people a great deal about natural health and healing.
EW: Yeah, I totally agree. My dad actually has diabetes, so I can personally relate with that. I disagree that medications may always be the answer. There’s a lot more to health than just popping pills.
BG: Another pharmacist, Suzie Cohen, has a new book called Diabetes Without Drugs. It’s another example of a pharmacist who’s using that positioning to kind of, based on their authority…It’s very believable when a pharmacist is telling you not to use drugs. So it’s gives you a unique positioning to go forward with the rest of your career.
EW: Thank you. I really appreciate that. Let’s go back to you now really quick: You’ve been in the field of health publishing and well as health coaching, so can you tell me what you feel are some misinformation or mistakes that are being promoted today by the so-called or self-proclaimed “health experts” out there? What’s your take on that?
BG: That’s an interesting question. I think that the biggest one is really the reductionist philosophy behind much of medicine today. Like the heart, lungs, kidneys, pancreas, whatever. And the diseases of those organs are looked at specifically, and then drugs are given to take care of just that particular organ. We can see where that kind of thinking has gotten us. As a society, we are terribly ill, with so many people having heart disease, diabetes, obesity, cancer. We’re an extremely sick society on the basis of this highly reductionist approach. It clearly doesn’t work. What I believe the point of view that we should embrace is that our body is a self-healing mechanism, and given the right kind of nourishment – whether it’s food, whether it’s emotional nourishment, relationships, the nourishment of exercise, the nourishment of fulfilling work or whatever – given true nourishment, holistic nourishment, the body will heal itself. It’s a self-healing mechanism, and I think the experts that promote the reductionist view and continue to do that will look at smaller and smaller pieces and try to find solutions – but that’s just not working. And, medicines aren’t completely working.
There are a lot of modalities that really kind of represent the natural healing capacity of the body. Osteopathy is one. Naturopathy is another. Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM), Ayurvedic medicine from India. Aromatherapy, massage therapy, exercise therapy. There’s really a lot of different modalities out there that are really about activating the natural healing powers of the body. The more people use those, I think the better it’s going to be for everybody.
EW: What’s your take on all those modalities of natural healing? Do you feel there’s merit to all those types of therapy? Or, do you feel some of it could be just hogwash?
BG: I think there’s a lot of merit to them. There’s different ways to prove merit. There’s the scientific method to prove merit. Like, evidence-based merit. Then, there’s thousands of years of tradition, and which therapies that have worked for people. Also, there’s clinicians with their own experience which have identified empirically what things work. When it comes to health, it’s a really individual matter.
I was just talking to a dear friend yesterday, who had found himself that the…he had a friend with cancer, and he was driving that friend to an Ayurvedic therapist, and he himself began to see that therapist and a chiropractor and do the dietary regimens he recommended and finding tremendous benefit. It’s really a matter of attraction.
Everybody doesn’t fall in love with everybody else. But some people work for some people and don’t work for other people. Similarly, you find the modalities that work for you. If you’re interested in a natural modality, you naturally will find those that work for you.
The same thing with diet. There’s literally hundreds of natural diets out there, points of view from every iota of the spectrum. And you just need to find what works for you. There’s no one diet that works for everybody.
EW: That’s a profound statement. Very, very true. There’s no one, specific diet that works for everyone. Just like there’s no one specific drug that works for everyone. It’s a process of trial and error that leads you to find what works for you.
BG: People are as individual as snowflakes. You are a very particular pattern, so what is it that combines with your particular pattern that brings to the fore your energy, you positivity, your drive, your enjoyment, your love, all the things that characterize health.
EW: That’s a great point. Now, given our individuality and our own values and energy and drive, what do you think is the biggest obstacle that prevents most people from achieving the health that they are trying to seek?
BG: Well that’s a very interesting question, and I was actually thinking about that a lot, What is the biggest obstacle? You know, it’s a paradox.
The biggest obstacle to people achieving what they want to get is not accepting what is actually happening. That is actually the biggest obstacle. Because, when you are resisting what’s going on – trying to stop something, suppressing something, trying to get away from something, we end up giving that thing more energy.
Like, if somebody is overweight, what’s the biggest obstacle to them losing weight? It’s probably dieting. Because they forbid themselves certain foods, in order to lose weight. And eventually they exhaust themselves, and they binge and gain the weight back. Just look at the pattern of dieting. This is what happens to 95% of those who diet: they lose some weight, gain it back because everything is too restrictive.
So the first step for those people is just to accept that they can eat anything. It’s kind of a core principle. You see it in Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction, which is very popular. “Acceptance and commitment” therapy, an interesting type of psychological therapy where they emphasize starting by accepting whatever is going on with you, accepting yourself emotionally, accepting your thoughts whatever they are, accepting your body however it is, and just acceptance as a whole for your whole being.
Really, it’s a profound phenomenon that the obstacle for people getting what they want is trying so hard to get it. And, acceptance is really the first step to meeting your goals. So, mindfulness, which is getting so popular really teaches that – just accepting what is. This lack of acceptance, resistance, and limiting your choices, fear-based limitations, like what drives people on a diet is really the biggest obstacle.
EW: Wow, that’s really mind-blowing stuff. Do you mind if we go into mindfulness for a second? And, what do you think are the benefits of practicing mindfulness?
BG: Mindfulness is essentially being present in the moment, accepting what is happening. There’s all different ways to do that which people teach – from like following your breath, having a practice of mindfulness, like a sitting meditation practice, taking that out to your daily life. Like bringing you attention back to what is. If you notice wondering or anxious thoughts, or condemning yourself for what happened in the past, worrying about what’s going to happen in the future, just bring yourself back to the present moment.
I was just reading a wonderful book called Paradoxical Relaxation, a guy I interviewed for a book I just did, Men’s Health for Over-40 Guys. We were looking at this illness called chronic prostatitis – really an illness of chronic tension of the pelvic bone. These guys are chronically tightening their lower body and then they get all these weird symptoms, urinary symptoms, pain symptoms, very common. And this guy had this, and he just had to teach himself the process of acceptance. He was telling this one story about a friend of his who is 80, who had brain cancer, and the friend started saying to himself rather than resisting what was happening, he said to himself “I want it this way: just the way it is”.
He would just say that, over and over again. “I want it this way: just the way it is.” And those kind of practices, where you just bring yourself into acceptance. Like this guy has a relaxation practice where he just lies down, he allows himself to feel whatever sensation in his body as tense as it is, or whatever it is, and only by allowing it does that area relax. That’s the way it relaxes, by allowing the tension, the tension relaxes.
Those kind of processes, affirmation of acceptance, bringing the mind back to the present, or just laying down and allowing the body to relax. Those are all mindfulness practices that are really profound. And, their very health-giving. And, just doing what you are doing – reading, and just combining your mind and heart with these profound teachings, just reminding yourself on a daily basis. 10 minutes. 15 minutes. They all help. And they lead to this equanimity. It’s not about becoming a passive person. It’s just about allowing what is and, from there, having whatever intention you have, you can bring great energy to things at that point.
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For the rest of our exclusive interview, stay tuned for Part 2 of our 54-minute interview – to be uploaded soon (as soon as I finish transcribing it!)
Again, for more information about Bill and, to get an exclusive 50-minute FREE zero-obligation health consultation with Bill to see if health coaching may be right for you, go to Bill’s website http://billgottliebhealth.com/, and tell him that Eric Wang from Health Demystified sent you.
The 40-Year Old Perversion
In the late 1960s and early 1970s, psychologist Walter Mischel conducted a series of experiments at Stanford University’s Bing Nursery School to test how long 4-year-olds could resist a small, immediate reward (i.e. a marshmallow) in order to get a larger reward later (e.g. two marshmallows). [1-3]
In a span of 40 years, what began as a seemingly trivial experiment involving mini-marshmallows and pre-schoolers became a landmark life-span developmental study. Over the course of those 4 decades, Mischel and his team invited those then-preschoolers back several times to see how they fared in life after that fateful day on which they either triumphed over or succumbed to the mini-marshmallow.
Those who gave into the mini-marshmallow seemed to be doomed to a life of wretched misfortune. Those who gave into the marshmallow ended up with significantly lower SAT scores, poorer social cognitive and emotional coping skills in their teenage years [4,5]
The tragic part is that the curse didn’t go away even after they reached adulthood.
Those who couldn’t resist the mini-marshmallow ended up with lower levels of educational achievement, lower sense of self-worth and self-esteem, less ability to cope with stress, and higher cocaine/crack use [6]
In other studies, those with low self-control had generally higher BMIs (i.e. were fatter), had more crack cocaine use, higher incidence of borderline personality disorders and anxiety, and higher divorce rates than those with higher self-control. [7]
And, since I am a health care professional, let’s look at the effects of self-control on one’s health:
Health psychologist Laura Kubzansky (Harvard) found that the ability to stay focused on a task and persistence in problem solving at the age of 7 years predicted physical health 30 years later – even when controlling for childhood social environment and child health. [8]
With that said, how is YOUR self-control?
-Eric
Eric Wang, Pharm.D. Candidate 2012
SOURCES
[1] Mischel, W., Ebbesen, E.B., Zeiss, A.R. Cognitive and attentional mechanisms in delay of gratification. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. 1972; 21: 204–18.
[2] Mischel, W., Shoda, Y., Rodriguez, M.L. Delay of gratification in children. Science, 1989; 244: 933–8.
[3] Mischel, W., Ayduk, O. (2004). Willpower in a cognitive-affective processing system: The dynamics of delay of gratification. In: Baumeister, R.F., Vohs, K.D., editors. Handbook of Self-Regulation: Research, Theory, and Applications. New York: Guilford, pp. 99–129.
[4] Mischel W, Shoda Y, Peake PK. The nature of adolescent competencies predicted by preschool delay of gratification. J Pers Soc Psychol. 1988; 54:687-696.
[5] Shoda Y, Mischel W, Peake PK. Predicting adolescent cognitive and self-regulatory competencies from preschool delay of gratification: Identifying diagnostic conditions. Dev Psychol. 1990; 26:978-986.
[6] Ayduk, O., Mendoza-Denton, R., Mischel, W., et al. Regulating the interpersonal self: Strategic self-regulation for coping with rejection sensitivity. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. 2000; 79: 776–92.
[7] Casey BJ, Somerville LH, Gotlib IH, et al. Behavioral and neural correlates of delay of gratification 40 years later. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. 2011; 108 (36): 14998-15003.
[8] Kubzansky, L.D., Martin, L.T., Buka, S.L. (2009). Early manifestations of personality and adult health: A life course perspective. Health Psychology. 2009; 28: 364–72.
RISING STARS IN THE HEALTH AND FITNESS BLOGOSPHERE: Health and fitness bloggers who will entertain, inform, and inspire the world in 2012
First of all, I want to admit I stole the title of this post off Srini Rao’s awesome personal development site, theskooloflife.com. So, check that out. You won’t be disappointed.
For those of you who don’t know who Srini is: He is one of my top blogging heroes. He has a podcast on iTunes called BlogCast FM, in which he regularly interviews experts in blogging, marketing, and social media. Check out BlogCast FM here: http://blogcastfm.com/
I’ve just personally inspired by many fantastic health and fitness blogs out there. These are some of the best I have come across. So, I just want to take the time now to showcase these examples of up-and-coming talent in the health and fitness blogosphere.
Kay, essaykaywrites. http://essaykaywrites.wordpress.com/
What’s awesome about it:
-Kay realizes that we can always learn things from others - even from 3-year-old toddlers:
http://essaykaywrites.wordpress.com/2012/04/12/nuggets-of-inspiration-from-my-children-nothing-wrong-with-getting-a-little-help/
-It’s REAL. No fluffy stuff. Just pure, unfettered reality. I love this post about how sometimes you just can’t avoid processed foods - and what you can do about it: http://essaykaywrites.wordpress.com/2012/04/08/when-no-processed-foods-is-an-impractical-option-just-eat-as-healthily-as-you-can/
Megan, “A Better Year To a Better Life” http://abetteryeartoabetterlife.com/
What’s awesome about it:
-Plenty of mouth-watering recipes. If she keeps at it, Jamie Oliver may have to wage a “Food Revolution” against her site, because she’ll be stealing all his business. EXAMPLE: http://abetteryeartoabetterlife.com/2012/04/11/delicious-salmon-as-promised/
-Megan’s a runner. I have to admit being biased because I’m a runner as well. http://abetteryeartoabetterlife.com/2012/04/10/super-model/
-The third reason is intangible, but really one of the biggest reasons I am borderline addicted to her blog. In just under 3 months (her first post was on January 26th, 2012), Megan has really developed her unique voice - very rare to see someone interject so much personality in her posts.
Stephanie, “Stephanie’s World of Zen” http://stephaniesworldofzen.wordpress.com/
What’s awesome about it:
- Stephanie is one of those bloggers that just GETS IT. This is one of my favorite posts I’ve read recently: http://stephaniesworldofzen.wordpress.com/2012/04/11/send-it-out-to-the-universe
-She has discovered the power of simplicity. I love the minimalist feel of the site. In a materialistic world like ours, it’s refreshing to read a blog about the little things we often take for granted: http://stephaniesworldofzen.wordpress.com/2012/04/02/just-breathe
“Adventures with Getting Fit Dancing” http://dancingisgreatfun.wordpress.com/
What’s awesome about it:
-The blogger teaches that going to the gym is not the only way to lose weight. Why not go dancing instead? It’s a lot of fun. (this is coming from arguably the most clumsy and/or awkward person on the planet - ME).
-Why more people should “shake their booty”: http://dancingisgreatfun.wordpress.com/2012/04/04/parallel-universe-booty-shaking-in-a-towel-dancing-in-a-towel/
-The blogger teaches you how to lose weight in the comfort of your own home and have a DAMN good time doing it!
Maria, “rubberbandpants: One mom’s quest to be reunited with her skinny jeans” http://rubberbandpants.wordpress.com/
What’s awesome about it:
-You will lose calories by laughing your ass off (literally) by reading Maria’s posts. Check out this excerpt from a recent post by Maria:
If I had been a caveman, I’d have lasted about a week and not because I’d have been eaten by a T-rex either. Because I’d have died of starvation. I’d have been the fattest person ever to have died of starvation. Fattest, because I’m now convinced that eating leaves and other torturously healthy foods has a direct impact on the expansion of my ass. I know, I know, give it time, blah blah blah. I’m happy to “give it time” if I’m simply cutting back on calories or adding in an evening stroll, but by only eating all this food that tastes like the blandest of all blandness, I don’t think so. Bitter you ask? Why yes, I am. I spent an entire week neglecting household chores, my children and What Not To Wear, holed up in my little kitchen cooking away like freaking Paula Dean. Only she gets the fun of sampling all her treats where I just would look at the food thinking, “I have to eat this healthy crap for dinner?” If one more person tells me it’s a “lifestyle,” not a “diet,” I’m gonna stuff an almond meal and blueberry cowpie down their throat. Then ask them how they are enjoying their “lifestyle.” (http://rubberbandpants.wordpress.com/2012/04/10/paleo-schmaleo/)
Do you know any other great health and fitness blogs that are relatively new (less than 1 year old)? If so, please let me know and I will personally look at your nominations/suggestions
-Eric
Eric Wang, Pharm.D. Candidate 2012
healthdemystified.com
Thanksgiving Thursdays (Week #2)
On this special Thursday, I want to thank some of my most engaged (and engaging) supporters. These are people that have gone out of their way to comment on my posts, share them, even tweet about them.
Honestly, I couldn’t have done it without you guys. The people below are some of my MVPs – Most Valued Peeps. You guys are awesome. Thank you so much! For all of you Health Demystified fans and readers out there, give these peeps some lovin and check out their blogs
-Eric
Sara F, http://shewasjustahitchhiker.com/
Maria Zarif, http://owmaria.wordpress.com/
http://spinmethin.wordpress.com/
Laura R. http://healthylivingexpose.wordpress.com/
Simon R., http://unfebuckinglievable.wordpress.com/
Megan, http://abetteryeartoabetterlife.com/
Kristen, http://firmandhealthy.wordpress.com/
http://myjourney2healthy.wordpress.com/
“Celtic Hippie” http://celtichippie.wordpress.com
Helen Cherry, http://hellenjc.wordpress.com/
Peter Davoust, http://worldgnat.wordpress.com/
Dr. Volker Mann, http://volkermann.wordpress.com/
Carmen Djemalian, http://thenewhappyme.com/
Emma Bauer, http://emmabauer.wordpress.com/
Suzanne Broadbent http://betterbalancedlife.com/
Is High Self-Esteem Harmful?
Ok, we’ve all heard that it’s good to have high self-esteem. But, is it really?
People say you should think positively, and live positively, and just believe you are generally awesome.
You are incredible. You are unstoppable. You are just amazing. If you say these affirmations to yourself over and over again while listening to the relaxing sounds of crashing waves and “forest” music, you will become incredible, unstoppable, and just, well, amazing!
Or so they say.

But, let’s see what science has to say about that:
People with high self-esteem tend to make “inflated assessments and predictions about themselves” often leading them to make commitments “that exceed capabilities, thus leading to failure.” [1]
“Although high self-esteem is generally considered to be a desirable, adaptive state, it may have drawbacks when effective self-management requires accurate assessment of self.” [1]
Several studies have shown that people with high self-esteem respond to failure with increased persistence, even if this persistence is counterproductive and contrary to the advice they have received. [2]
People with high self-esteem even “engage in self-defeating patterns, such as self-handicapping by reducing their preparatory effort” [3].
Ok, before you all go out and try to lower your self-esteem and telling yourself how horrible you are, let me just clarify something. High self-esteem is NOT a bad thing. The point I’m trying to make is that high self-esteem may come with some important drawbacks.
The following are some things you can do to make sure you don’t screw yourself over:
Don’t be so confident that you don’t prepare adequately. “Oh my God, I’m so awesome! I don’t need to even prepare, cuz all I do is win…” Please don’t be the next Charlie Sheen.
Yes, you may be awesome. And the fact that you are reading my blog is proof that you are a person with great taste. However, don’t forget to do the necessary preparation to prime yourself for success. For more info on this, check out these two fantastic posts:
http://healthywage.wordpress.com/2012/04/11/losin-it-with-kate-week-3-preparing-for-success/
http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/its-all-mental/one-foot-in-front-of-the-other-mentally-preparing-for-weight-loss/
If your method isn’t working, change your approach. “I am so freaking awesome, I never make mistakes…” No, you’re human. And, you make mistakes everyday - just like the rest of us.
Doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting different results is the definition of stupidity - hard-headed stupidity bordering on psychosis (e.g. Charlie Sheen).

Don’t set goals that are TOO high. As Roy Baumeister, a pioneer in social psychology, puts it: “Setting goals that are too high may be a more costly error than setting goals that are too low. If one’s goal is too low, the value of success is diminished, but at least one does succeed.” Basically, don’t set yourself for failure by setting overly grandiose goals. Baumeister suggests that, instead, we should strive for the “highest goals that one can successfully reach.”
Or, one approach that I use which has helped me to stay on track is to make many small goals that over time will lead me to achieve that big “overly grandiose” goal.
For example, pretend you want to lose 80 pounds. So, instead of setting unrealistic goals like losing 59% of your body weight in two days, set an achievable goal to lose a pound a week. Or, to go to the gym 2-3 times a week, something manageable for you. If you keep at it, you’ll be able to reach that big goal you’re striving for.
For more great resources on setting realistic goals, check out http://jamieatlas.wordpress.com/2008/07/03/results-not-typical-setting-realistic-weight-loss-goals/ (hilarious) and http://jayneblumenthal.com/how-realistic-is-your-weight-loss-goal/
As always, hope this has been helpful to you. Feel free to reblog it and share the love. If you have any feedback (positive or negative), feel free to comment below. I’d love to hear from you.
Talk Soon,
Eric
Eric Wang, Pharm.D. Candidate 2012
healthdemystified.com
SOURCES:
[1] Baumeister RF, Heatherton TF, and Tice DM. When Ego Threats Lead to Self-Regulation Failure: Negative Consequences of High Self-Esteem. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. 1993. 64(1): 141-156.
[2] McFarlin DB, Baumeister RF, and Blascovich J. On knowing when to quit: Task failure, self-esteem, advice, and nonproductive persistence. Journal of Personality.1984. 52: 138-155.
[3] Tice DM, and Baumeister RF. Self-esteen, self-handicapping, and self-presentation: The strategy of inadequate practice. Journal of Personality, 1990. 58: 443-464.